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Navigating the Adolescent Years

Navigating the Adolescent Years: Reclaiming our Youth

By Heather Ferguson | April 1, 2014

Many people shudder when thinking of parenting an adolescent.  Indeed it can be a rite of passage for the adults responsible as well as for the teens involved. It is our job to help them cross the bridge from childhood to adulthood, and as with any transition, this can be a confusing, challenging and turbulent…

The Trouble With Time Outs

By Heather Ferguson | December 28, 2013

Many parents struggle with what to do when their children misbehave and often look to the well-known technique of time-outs. Although originally developed in the 1960s as a means to protect children from spanking, time-outs are used today as a panacea that is unwittingly creating other parenting problems. Although time-outs can buy temporary compliance with…

Too Attached

Can A Child Be Too Attached?

By Heather Ferguson | December 17, 2013

Dr. Neufeld recently completed a series of interviews with Kids in the House. I’m pleased to have permission to share these informative videos to bring you Dr. Neufeld’s attachment-based, developmentally friendly parenting advice — in three minutes or less!   Can children be too attached to parents?| Find More Parenting Tips, Advice, and Videos at…

Bossy Alpha Children

WHO’S IN CHARGE? Being in Right Relationship with our Children

By Heather Ferguson | November 1, 2013

A growing number of children and youth today are presenting as demanding, prescriptive, bossy and controlling. “You can’t tell me what to do!” “Not this way, that way!” “Give me that right now!” “You have to listen to me!” “Mom, you need to relax!” Every child talks like this from time to time, but some…

Parenting through September School Transitions

By Heather Ferguson | September 1, 2013

If your kids are cranky and uncooperative and you think your parenting is to blame, you may want to reconsider. Letting go of glorious summer to face school routines isn’t easy. Many kids have separation anxiety. Kids naturally have mixed emotions, which may spill out as tantrums, new monsters under the bed, refusals to do…

Strong Relationships

Building strong relationships with our children

By Heather Ferguson | July 1, 2013

Summer is here and, for many of us, that means so are our kids. Finally, the possibility of that elusive (and guilt-producing) ideal, “quality time,” has arrived. Shortly after the relief of not making school lunches, however, many of us will be yearning for September, when the kids go back to school. Being with our…